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Beyond the Image Podcast

Apr 15, 2022

I’ve spent the last several hours in a tremendous amount of pain and I’ve done this for you. I’ve been thinking about the craziest, stupidest things I’ve ever done to get a girl to notice me.

For example, I was the kid who would immediately raise the decibel level on my voice when a girl sat next to me on the bus and started to laugh much louder so that she knew I was having a great time. 

In middle school, I got a Shawn Kemp jersey that I would wear at least once a week to school. Every time I put it on, I had an idea in my mind that I would get special attention from a girl. In my senior year of high school, I didn’t have a touch phone, but I would just pretend to have one hoping that a girl would ask if it was the new touch phone.

Today, we’re going to talk about doing all the wrong things.

“How often in our work are we avoiding doing the one thing 

that would actually get us work?


  • The many ways James tried to impress girls in his youth and why it didn’t work.
  • Focusing on what work and tasks get you the results you want.
  • What list you need to make today.
  • What you are spending the least time doing.
  • Being honest with yourself.
  • Taking the right action.

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